Overcoming the Terror of Death

Sunday, October 3, 2010
First Aired:
Sunday, October 12, 2008

What Is It

对许多人来说,死亡是可怕的。但是为什么呢?正如大卫·休谟(David Hume)所指出的,在我们出生之前,我们不存在的那些年似乎没有什么痛苦。为什么要担心未来不存在?真正让人担心的是我们还会继续存在吗?Ken and John confront mortality with psychiatrist and novelist Irv Yalom, author ofStaring at the Sun: Overcoming the Terror of Death. This program was recorded before a live audience at The Marsh theater in San Francisco.

Listening Notes

John kicks off the show by criticizing its title: who says that death is terror inducing? Why imply that this terror is a bad thing, and overcoming this terror is a good thing? Ken and John start off the discussion with Irv Yalom by asking when fear of death kicks in, and how it kicks in. When we hit big birthdays or get hit by severe illness, how should we respond? What attitudes are healthy and life affirming, and what attitudes are paralyzing? Ken, John and Irv talk about the rational bases of various responses. If there is nothing after death, does that make life meaningless? They discuss the implications of Lucretius’ old (very old – from ancient Greece) ‘symmetry argument’ . They then discuss the fear of everything surrounding death: even if we can convince ourselves not to fear death, how can we avoid fearing pain, regret, and loss of cognitive capacities? What about the right to die, when you want to die?

The last section begins with a question for Irv: how does he, as a therapist, help those who fear death? Irv discusses how he works through his own thoughts on death, and the kinds of discussions he has with patients about philosophy, dreams, and regrets. He focuses on the importance of dealing with regrets from the past, and preventing them in the future. Ken and John then let an adoring audience flood Irv with questions. He discusses dealing with those dealing with death, models of a good death, and how he, as a therapist, deals with his own death (namely, by getting more therapy). John and Ken end with concluding remarks: John tells a mediocre joke, Ken quotes Shakespeare.

  • Roving Philosophical Report(seek to 6:50): Zoe Corneli interviews William Lure, who has spent years working in end of life care. William talks about peaceful passings, faith, terror, and the meaning of death.
  • 60-Second Philosopher(seek to 4:55): Ian Shoales leads a whirlwind tour through a range of philosophical thoughts on the rationality of fearing death, from James Boswell and David Hume, to Mormonism, to Lucretius, and – finally – the analogy between pre-existence and pre-school.

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RepoMan05

Sunday, October 6, 2019 -- 8:28 AM

Life will do this to you

Life will do this to you eventually all on it's own. It's not necessarily a good thing to encourage. A fear of death is the strongest tool nature ever found to keep life going. It is tho as if whatever force behind the creation-evolution of life, didnt want the resentment of life. Perhaps it just works out that way for virtue of not being malicious, but maybe not.

所有的挣扎,所有的折磨,所有的主观性让你成为受害者,所有的主观性让你有罪,所有的谎言,所有的损失,所有的不好的回忆,所有转瞬即逝的美好回忆,最后都消失了。从中我们可以得到很多安慰。如果你敞开心扉,“不存在竞争”的概念会给你带来难以想象的安慰。没有永恒不会变成地狱。他们说这是你的一部分让你这样看待它。一些可以从你身上移除让你永远存在的东西。但你不会想念那部分的你吗?我们并没有傻到认为来世是可取的。

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RepoMan05

Sunday, October 6, 2019 -- 8:31 AM

任何东西都可能是毒药。It

任何东西都可能是毒药。这只是剂量的问题。

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RepoMan05

Sunday, October 6, 2019 -- 8:33 AM

Spreadsheetism is the worst

电子表格主义是最糟糕的哲学。

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RepoMan05

Sunday, October 6, 2019 -- 8:49 AM

Well what they ckearly mean

Well what they clearly mean to say about pre-existance is to say "pre-caporeal existence." yaknow, as if they know what that means when they need to. But but then they dont know what that means when they need to also; and thats supposed to mean something? Then they condemn philosophy for being open ended....?

二维思维的成果可能总是有害的。

"They" = theists